Rant just because I haven’t blogged since forever and I need to get this out of my system.
*background story that will be needed later*
I was walking to theater class and my cousin’s boyfriend came up to me to say “hi”. The conversation then went to:
Timmy: How is Vi (my cousin)?
Me: She’s your girlfriend, why are you asking me. We’re not even close.
Timmy: Really I thought you guys were all really close. And we broke up.
Me: No we only talk or see each other at family parties. You guys did, was this recently?
Timmy: Oh, I didn’t know that. Yeah about a couple weeks ago.
Me: I’m sorry to hear, it’s okay though! Well my class is right here so I’ll talk to you later.
Okay so months later I see Timmy at a party in the area. While I was waiting for Al to go to the restroom, Timmy was waiting for his girl to go to the restroom as well. We noticed each other so I came over to him to say hi. Conversation went like:
Me: Is that your new girlfriend?
Timmy: No but I like her.
Timmy’s friend: Yeah he’s taken sorry!
Me: Eww, he’s my cousin’s ex I wouldn’t want him even if he was single.
Timmy: -to his friend- Yeah this is Vivian’s cousin.
Timmy: So has the family said anything about me yet?
Me: Not really, all I heard was that you guys broke up because you didn’t let her have guy friends or even talk to guys. (This is what Vivian told my mom, her mom, and the other aunts.)
Timmy: What, really? That’s not even true.
Me: Oh idk, that’s just what I heard.
-Al walks out of the restroom-
Me: Well I have to go, if it makes you feel any better we all think Vi’s a bitch.
A couple weeks later my aunt calls my mom bitching at her for telling me false info cause Timmy was bitching at Vi because I told him that the family was talking shit on him. I walked into the house as they were arguing so my mom hands me the phone. I told my aunt that I didn’t say anything to him about the family. She said okay and that it was probably all a misunderstanding.
About a month ago I had to drop my mom off at my aunt’s house. Vivian started shit with me with our other aunt there. She was like “I don’t want her in my house” and shit like that. We ended up getting into an argument. What pissed me off was that she doesn’t even want to hear my side of the story, she’s just listening to Timmy. She claims that the situation is “irrelevant” yet she’s over here being a little bitch about not letting me into the house. Up until that day I didn’t know what “shit” I told Timmy. Our other aunt then tells me that Timmy said that I told him that the family hates his family and what not. Idk how a conversation about how they broke up became my family talking shit on his…
A couple days ago my aunt comes to my house to tell my mom that Vivian’s car got egged. Apparently there was 3 of their cars parked in the streets and only Vivian’s car got egged. She blamed me for it, telling her mom and our aunts that I’m probably mad about her not letting me in the house so I egged her car.
Lets be honest, I can careless about her. Like I told Timmy, I see her once or twice at family parties. Vivian has no impact in my life. Whether her and Timmy are together, I can careless. TBH whether Vivian is dead or alive I can careless. As harsh as that sounds its true. We were never close that her life has nothing to do with mine. I can careless about this stupid immature drama that she and Timmy are creating. Plus, I don’t even know what car Vivian drives. And lets be real, if I was to have done something to her car, I would have broke it not egg it.
Guys think that they can get me by play hard yet they’re completely incorrect. If you ignore me, I will just find someone to talk to. Don’t want to give me the love and affection I’m looking for, I will search for it somewhere else.
Boy don’t think you’re not replaceable because you are.